The Randy & Stephanie Dirks Family Est~ 2000
~If you think our hands are full, you should see our hearts!~

Saturday, October 26, 2013

Autumn Celebrations

With a Saturday with no plans other than being together, we took the morning to look at the fall beauty.  I've been wanting to do this for a few weeks, but have either been too busy or to sick to get out with the camera.  This has been an absolutely stunning autumn!  This is the "end" of our season and the colors still take my breath away!

 My World!

  I LOVE the red! Pretty much my favorite color!
 These trees are on an off-ramp which makes it impossible to get family pictures taken here.  Can you imagine the family in fall colors with those trees as a backdrop?  With the beautiful tan grasses coming to our hips?  Walking hand-in-hand?  Man, I love this spot that can never be used!

 These trees line/separate a vineyard.  They stand as tall, green sentinels for most of the year.  I love that you still see green intermingled with the yellow. 

 Um...I want this backyard!!!  Look at the Red, then the Purple, then the Yellow, then the Orange, then the Light Green, then the Dark Green.  I think I would be content to just sit in my backyard all day enjoying this view!
 
 Don't these red bushes look as if they are glowing?!  Like they have batteries?!  I want one.  Or two.  Or fifty!

 This is the view as we leave our neighborhood.  I love the three different colors of this fall landscaping!  Such a beautiful Season!!
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After we got back, Randy and I ran to Walmart to surprise the kids with a project we haven't done for years. 
Pumpkin Carving!!
 I got the BEST facial expressions from my girls!  Keilie's above, Shelby's below:)
 
 Don't you love the blue gloves?  How can I expect them to reach their hands in there when there is NO way I would do it myself.  Ever!
 These two boys refused to put their hands inside the pumpkins.  This is the main reason we haven't done this for years.  I HATE cleaning pumpkins.  I hate carving pumpkins.  I hate sticky, gooey, stringy pumpkins.  But, man, do I love those faces!



 The Finished Product!!  Caden and Keilie were too excited to add their pumpkins to our tower, hence no pictures of them with theirs.  They did such a great job, though!

 Keilie- age 10
 Shelby- age 6
 Tyson- age 4
 Brennon- Age 5
 Caden- age 12
Happy Halloween 2013!!!

Monday, October 21, 2013

Birthday Boy

October 13, 2013
Tyson turned FOUR!
 We had a party on October 5th while Grandpa and Grandma Dirks were visiting.
 Since Grandpa Darwin's birthday is the 11th and Tyson Darwin's birthday is the 13th, we sang to both.
 Tyson still loves cars!  Caden set up this photo shoot after seeing something similar.  This four was his idea.
 Tyson has also found a love of Legos.  We got him two towers of 100 blocks.  He has been in HEAVEN building whatever he can think of.  Hours of building.  There have even been times when he said he wanted to go hungry because he was playing with them!
And no, it's not because I made something disgusting!!
 He has given me so much grief about naps, that I've given up the fight and relented.  He is my only child that did not take naps until they were five.  And it makes me sad!
 However, this gives me time to spend alone with this little cutie.  He LOVES reading, as in more than cars, so we do a lot of that!  We regularly make trips to the library, where he plays for hours with the blocks!
 It's hard to believe my baby is four.  I love the independence it gives, but miss so much about babies.  He is the best "ender" in the world!
 I didn't get a photo of the cake for the blog because our camera was dead.  I found a cake on Pinterest and copied it as close as I could.  It turned out to be the best cake I've made yet!

 This picture is a TRUE Tyson.  He is such a cheese.  It's a miracle that all from this photo shoot didn't look like this!  Incidentally, it's our favorite!
Tyson, we are so lucky to have you in our family!  You make us complete.  I love your sassy, cuddly, inquisitive little personality.  Thank you for being ours. 
Happy Birthday, Mister!!

Sunday, October 20, 2013

Bank

As a reward for my kids cleaning the house yesterday, I purchased a large bag of Riddles Skittles and gave them each 1/4 cup in a small bowl.  They sat down at the table and "played" with their candies as they ate them.  It was fun just watching them use their imaginations'.  Keilie asked each sibling if there was a color they didn't like, and if so, she would kindly take it off their hands- she's generous like that.  They all declined.  Then, in a stroke of genius said, "Who wants to play bank?"  This was said in such a tone that they babes could not resist.  She herded them over to the front room, while I stayed at the table to silently listen to her brilliant idea.

"Who wants this pink one?"
(All of them) "ME!"
"OK, that will be ten Skittles."
And they would pay!

She knew the colors that were their favorite and offer it to them for a CRAZY high price.  I let it go on for a few minutes then made her give each of their "transactions" back.  At one point, Tyson was upset thinking he'd been ripped off.  She gave him back his five Skittles and began walking away.  He felt jipped and started to cry.  She said, "Tyson, I gave you your five Skittle back!" to which he replied, "Yeah, but I only gave your four!"  She immediately said, "Well, then give me one back, then."  This affirmed to me that she can do quick math when it benefits/interests her.  Who needs to read and understand story problems about a boy named Gabe who has five apples?  That's not real life.  But, if it's Keilie, she can do the math in a millisecond!

Thursday, October 17, 2013

Helped

Tonight at dinner, Randy asked the question of everyone, "Who did you help today?"
In all seriousness Brennon said, "I didn't scream, and I didn't hit anybody!"
Helpful, indeed!

Life as we know it- now!

Randy- Randy is loving his job right now.  He's doing a great job- like we thought he would do any different.  He's been recognized at the last two ( his only two) sales meetings.  This man succeeds at everything he tries.  He is the Scout Committee Chairman in the ward.  He loves that it doesn't require as much time as the last couple of Scout callings he's had.  I like that as well- he's gone enough as is.  He said it's different just going to Elder's Quorum each week.  He is gone pretty much every Tuesday-Thursday traveling.  It's nice to kind of have a "schedule" he can follow (instead of being on a Dr.'s erratic schedule) but it's hard to have him gone so much.  It's not as much travel as Spillman Technologies, when he was gone three weeks of the month, but it's enough for us to wish things were different.  Looking back at our almost 13 1/2 years of marriage, he's been gone for a lot of it.  They say absence makes the heart grow fonder.  Sometimes it's just make the heart want more.

Stephanie- I have been enjoying my time with only my two littlies at home in the morning.  I love that we are reading so much, Tyson on my lap and Brennon on my side.  Brennon is picking up the basic reading words and teaching Tyson all he knows.  Just this morning Tyson was singing along with Brennon the RED song.  "R-E-D Red, R-E-D Red, I can spell RED."  I love watching my kids learn.  I like the quiet in the house as well.  They play so well together, just the two of them.  They miss the others, but have fun together just the same.  I am also the Secretary in the Relief Society.  I love that calling, I tell you.  I love the organization.  I love getting to know everyone in the ward.  I love compiling all of the information.  I just love being on the sidelines of such an important calling.  It's just what I love to do.  I have slowly been getting sick again.  Headaches are plaguing me almost every day again.  I'm hoping to find relief from a Homeopathic Doctor.  The Doctor I met with in July said he could find nothing wrong with me and suggested I take another route.  Let's hope I can find relief soon.  I don't want to be "Casper sick" again.  I've been going to the gym again.  I love the feel after I'm done, especially when I can say I can run 5 miles in one hour!  From someone that hates the idea of running, I'm pretty proud of myself!

Caden- He received the Priesthood on May 19th and was set apart as the Deacon's Quorum Secretary in September.  He is doing well in school, thankfully.  Last year was really hard for him, but he's pulled through like a champ and is getting good grades and making good friends- though none as close as Brayden.  He has been doing a lot of Scouting this summer as well.  He actually earned 10 merit badges on the 2nd of October.  He is so close to earning his Eagle.  Randy is so good to work with him.  Caden is lucky to have someone by his side through these years.  He loves having his braces off, even if he's awful about remembering to wear his retainer.  Thorn in my side, I tell you!  He's such a good boy.  The other day I took him to get snack so for a campout.  He saw some Pringles and picked up a can.  I asked him if that was all he wanted when he said, "No.  Well...If that is all you would like me to have, I'll be grateful."  He knew he would like more, but he also knew to be grateful for what he was given.  Then, when we were walking out, I said I could take one of the two bags.  He gave me the lighter of the two.  He holds open doors for girls to enter the school, and is always polite to his elders.  He is shaping up to be a valiant boy/young man/man/husband.  Love him!

Keilie- She just started the Art Club in school and couldn't be happier.  She is always doing little projects when she finds herself with a spare minute.  It doesn't happen as often as she would like, but she does love art.  She is again in a lot of tutoring sessions to help raise her grade level.  She has the BEST teacher ever that helps her along.  I couldn't have asked for a better year/teacher for her.  She is still having trouble taking tests and doing other work, but we hope to get things straightened out before she enters Middle School next year.  She never complains, though.  She does what is asked, and does it with a smile.  She is the nicest little friend to others, and always talks about girls with love and friendship.  Although the hours between 3:30-7:30 are stressful trying to help her with her homework, I am grateful to have this time to spend with her one-on-one.  I am so glad to be able to help my kids!  I know this will not always be the case, especially if they keep changing things (like long division stratagies) but for now, I'm loving my kids' education.  Keilie also loves babies.  Jamie had little Caleb here for Tyson's birthday party.  Keilie begged to hold him.  While sitting on the couch, Caleb was content to just look up into Keilie's face.  I got the cutest picture of her holding him.  She will be such a good little mother someday!

Shelby- LOVES school.  She loves everything about it.  Every day is AWESOME!  I don't think she will ever be unhappy, wherever she goes. She has such a love of life and learning.  She is doing well at Math and Reading and can pretty much remember anything she learns.  She is like a sponge.  She also started Ballet with her friends in September.  She had such a fun time at the Dance Camp in the summer, I knew she had to get into this class.  She just love being with friends and loves playing.  She still loves the fact that she can brush her hair without snarls.  I miss her long locks every once in a while, but with as easy as it is to do her hair, I'm loving this new cut.  She also just lost her 5th tooth.  She is a work horse!  As she was ripping it out without even crying, she made the comment, "The sound my tooth is making is like crunching chips!"  So glad I was at Time Out for Women when this happened!  I can NOT believe how brave/strong my girls are!!  So glad they aren't like me with my weak stomach!!

Brennon- Brennon is in his element at Kindergarten.  He comes home with everything he did that day.  There is no, "I don't know's" or "Colored," when I ask what he did, he is all "I did this, and this, and this, and this..." He loves to tell me every aspect of his day.  Who he played with, what he liked, what he learned, what song he likes, that sort of thing.  He is in love with reading.  He picks out each word he has learned and knows.  He even loves that Pumpkin has "in" in it.  He loves to look ahead in the words of the book that we are reading and beat me to reading it out loud.  I love his enthusiasm for reading!  He is still in love with Cereal and Milk.  He is always hungry, and always asks for it!  He's not as stocky as he once was, but he is still solid.  It's weird to go shopping for him and get him the same size as his age.  For all of his life he was a size above.  He's thinned, but still feels heavy.  He is such a loving boy!

Tyson- He is definitely the "baby" of the family.  We can not get enough of him!  Keilie makes a statement almost daily about how she wishes he wouldn't grow up.  He has us all wrapped around his four-year-old finger.  He says the cutest things.  He knows more than he should at this age- probably because Brennon teaches him everything he knows- and he just gets smarter each day.  He is sassy, spunky, and curious.  He thinks he can have fits, and then says "you're not invited to my party" when he doesn't get his way.  He'll sit in the car if he doesn't want to go where you want to.  He goes hungry if he doesn't like dinner.  He goes to bed early so he doesn't have to clean.  He is just a little terror.  And then he comes up later and says he's sorry.  Or cleans without asking.  Or kisses you on the cheek just because.  Or snuggles on your lap while watching a movie.  Or sticks his behind in your face while trying to get on your lap while reading.  Or says, "Holy Crap, That Was Feakin' Amazing" when something surprises him.  And once again, we are all enamored with his cuteness.  He has told us that he promises to stay four forever!  And I'm going to hold him to it!

Times are changing for our family.  Life has settled down to a nice simmer, here.  We have our routines.  We have our work.  And right now, we are finding Joy in this Journey.  We decided that our family motto would forever be "Come What May ~ And Love It!" and right now, we're Lovin' Every Minute!

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Little Pants

"Brennon, go get pants on. It's cold outside."
A little while later...
"Mom, I can't find any pants. I can only find...um...uh...hmm...little pants?"
Shorts.

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Nap? Nope!


Do you remember how, just a few weeks ago, I remembered a way to have this boy take nap?
"You don't have to take a nap.  You just have to lay on your bed until the timer goes off."
He was out within a matter of minutes.
Today didn't work out so well.  I used the same method and got this response,
(Sassy) "Fine!  But I'm going to keep my eyes open the whole time."
And he did!
Stubborn little...

Brennon

I got an email from Brennon's teacher that truly captures the essence of my little boy.

"Last week while teaching in front of the class with the guitar I've had for 30 years, the strap broke sending my guitar to the ground.  As I knelt to examine the crack, Brennon came rushing up to me, arms extended for a hug, telling me 'It's OK!'  Soon after, the rest of the class came up to give one great big group hug.  At that moment I was holding back tears, not for my guitar, but for your son."

Brennon is still the most loving, tender-hearted little boy.  He can almost smother you with love sometimes.  Mrs. L thanked me for sharing him with her.  I know Brennon will always be compassionate, understanding, and wonderful.  At the exact moment of impact, my Brennon knew that his teacher was sad and needed him.  He did not hesitate to extend his love to her.  He is an outstanding boy.  I'm grateful he's mine!  As I was crying, filled with pride for my son, I felt such gratitude to my Heavenly Father for entrusting him to me.  For Eternity!

Saturday, October 5, 2013

Conference Words

While listening to the speakers of General Conference, we chose three words to listen to to receive a piece of candy. The kids love this game every time Conference rolls around. Tyson is old enough to really participate now. However, he may not have gotten the exact concept. 

"I heard "tax deadline!" Dad, "tax deadline!!""

Unfortunately there was no candy for that phrase.

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Finn McMissile

Tyson has asked me over one hundred times if I would take him to Toys R Us and get him a "Finn McSile."  I found a cake I want to make for his birthday that needs some of the characters from Cars, so I thought I would go and get them for him today.  It was CRAZY!  We looked through every single one of their cars, twice, and found ZERO Finn's.  I was starting to get really frustrated and decided to maybe start looking around town or possible make a different cake.  We wandered around the store a bit more and ended up on the Clearance isle.  Tyson flew to a "Finn" that was a remote control car that would have dwarfed the cake.  He said he wished he could find the "baby Finn."  As I was walking away, I just happened to see something stuck in the back next to the "daddy Finn."  It was the exact one we wanted, the LAST ONE IN THE ENTIRE STORE!!!  Tucked back, turned backwards, almost out of sight.  I had stumbled on the exact thing I needed.  The cake is back on!  The fun thing is that we get to celebrate this weekend when Darwin and Jackie come to visit!  Love visitors!!  And love it when things work out exactly how you want them to.